Why the title “If You Don’t Sit Down Somewhere!”
Growing up, occasionally, my Momma, Aunts, Granny or Gaga told me, “If you don’t sit down somewhere!” because most likely, I was doing something that I was not supposed to be doing or in my culture they would say, “I was doing the most.” Therefore, to help get my life back together, I would find a place to sit in which it was hard to find me (lol), think about the consequence of not settling down and reset so I would not get in trouble again. Ten out of ten times, I would rejoin the rest of the household without any further consequences.
Now that I am older, the tables have definitely turned, and as I always tell my momma, “I get it.” I now say to my children “If you don’t sit down somewhere!” Also, I am finding myself saying to myself “If you don’t sit down somewhere!” As a wife, mother, educator, entrepreneur, sister, friend and any other hat I need to put on, I find myself “doing the most.” For instance, I have full-time job as well as have a part-time job, homeschooling my three toddlers and have started my own business (Do you see what I mean when I say I am doing the most?) As a result of all these hats I wear, I have started gaining unhealthy living habits. Therefore, I have forced myself to sit down and reset. This blog is a platform for individuals to provide those real-life stories in order to let the audience see that they are not by themselves or give tips to become the best version of themselves.
Always remember, your story, your power.